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If it looks like a divorce action can have your wedding, take a proactive approach to the preparatory steps can significantly reduce the financial and emotional costs. If you are ready, before the divorce proceedings begin, what follows is a practical guide to the organization your home and life to such a procedure go more smoothly.

1) overview of the financial situation of the family: a list of what you own, a list of what you owe, what the family income is and where it comes from, and the family's monthly bills / living expenses. Specify who is named the owner or owners of each asset and for the individual debts (house, car, credit cards, etc.).

2) Make copies of statements for all accounts of your family, such as bank account, stocks or other investments, pension funds, life insurance and so on, as well as tax returns and other family financial records.

3) an inventory and a list of all personal property or assets that belong to you and / or you want to keep, if a division of the family occurs.

4) Hold. It. Friendly. If you can the relationship with partner civil and amicable by the split-up, all to win at least a little. Revenge is a poison that will hurt all, especially children. And if possible, unless you or your children are in danger, do not move from your home, not even if your partner asks you to, and no matter how much you want. If there are children, and they remain in the family home, the parents who have physical custody and live with them every day has a much better chance to the custody of the children, not as a parent, has moved out and only visits. Moreover, could be your share in the property. Your partner could undermine attempts to sell it, you have to pay the mortgage or the cost of paying for two homes - the family and your new - could be so hard that you lose interest in the home to obtain from under the debt.

5) Are you looking for an experienced family law attorney and start the search by your friends or co-workers for referrals. Before the first meeting with a lawyer, write down all questions and problems about which you ask. Like when you go to the doctor a written list will help you remember important issues, which could disrupt a discussion. It will help focus the meeting, it will take less time, saves money, and it is the lawyer a written document of your priorities may be that in your file for the future. Bring your financial records to your first session for the same reasons - it is much less expensive for the lawyer to get information from you than from financial institutions or from your partner lawyer.

6) The negotiation and agreement to work on your own through with your partner, before the divorce proceedings are, the less negotiating directives your lawyer will have to do on your behalf, and again, the more money you save in fees. If no agreement can be reached, your attorney must clearly step, but you can see some everyday issues such as who pays for the car insurance or school fees, or as household goods and furniture to be shared.

7) Do not make big-ticket purchase, or on new debt. These elements are your finances more difficult to sort when the time comes to things, and they could be applied to the debt burden, you must assume at a point when the money decreases.

8) Make the best possible educated estimate of what it costs you to live after the divorce, so you know what goals you want in the negotiations and financial management of the divorce.

9) If you have no credit on their own behalf, you will need it when you Sing Again. Start a good rating by a credit card, department store or gas card. Use it only to the extent you can pay off in full every month.

10) In working with your family law attorney if you write a letter or e-mail if you want, rather than the power of attorney over the phone, it will help your lawyer to work more efficiently, saving time and money. If the lawyer has problems or questions that you or him in a letter, it takes less time to learn more about the issue than if it is on the phone, there is time for the attorney, on research and an answer, and it makes the response more effective. Lange, "Story-telling" telephone conversations may be unnecessary payroll hours. Use your lawyer for legal advice and go with family and friends, when you need to vent or get emotional reinforcement.

This general guide to implement in your house in order before any divorce is not for every situation, nor the right thing for everyone, but it can help make a good start. Your family law attorney can assess what measures are best for you to take and the information that you organize the lawyer, the better that the evaluation will be. Divorce is not something any of us choose to do, but if it is unavoidable, it can intelligently and cooperatively, and the pain will be proportionally reduced.

M. Wreford is office manager for Sterling law firm, a civil law procedure, which specializes in family law, inheritance law and in the planning, personal injury, small business and real estate, social security disability and immigration law, from a small village in the northwest of Michigan's Sleeping Bear Dunes National Lakeshore. The law practice offers legal tips and information on its website, http://www.sterlinglawoffice.net True North on his law blog.